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Episode 86 - The Trap of Money, Sex, and Power - Part 1

SHOW NOTES "No issues touch us more profoundly or more universally. No themes are more inseparably intertwined. No topics caused more controversy. No human realities have greater power to bless or to curse. No three things have been sought after or more in need of a Christian response: money, sex, and power."

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No issues touch us more profoundly or more universally. No themes are more inseparably intertwined. No topics caused more controversy. No human realities have greater power to bless or to curse. No three things have been sought after or more in need of a Christian response: money, sex, and power.
— Richard Foster, from Challenge of the Disciplined Life: Money, Sex, and Power

This quote from Richard Foster is the perfect introduction to today’s podcast. Join Steve and Special guest Hayne Steen on today’s new podcast “The Trap of Money, Sex, and Power.”

Meet Special Guest Hayne Steen, MAMFT, LMHC

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Hayne grew up on the north Florida coast and met his wife at Flagler College in St. Augustine, Florida where they were both students and Young Life leaders. Since 1992 they have been serving together in full time ministry with Young Life and the local church all over the southeast.

Hayne worked in private practice as a Marriage and Family Therapist for six years while co-directing The SoulCare Project, serving as the Director of Counseling and Care. In 2017, he started his own practice, Elbow Tree Christian Counseling, LLC.

Hayne is a Flagler Alumnus (‘95) and did his graduate work at Richmont Graduate University (‘11). He lives in Saint Augustine, FL with his wife, three children, and one grandchild.

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  • Challenge of the Disciplined Life: Money, Sex, and Power by Richard Foster 

  • Family of Origin exercise - 6 questions:

    • That in the growing up years when you were just being formed, what were the negative characteristics that you experienced in your caregiver? Whether that was a mom, dad, or a grandparent that was charged with your care.

    • What were the positive characteristics that you experienced in that caregiver?

    • What were the unmet needs that went unmet. Like, what were the needs that you had, like physical, emotional, spiritual, that just did not get met?

    • What were the words that never were said, that needed to have been said over you that you long to hear?

    • When we think back on positive experiences in your family: vacations weekends, special birthdays, holidays--positive experiences in the family, what were the warm emotions that you felt in that season?

    • When things were not going well in the family; when things were blowing up; when things were breaking down—How did you cope? Where would we find you? What did you do?

  • Ephesians 1:3 (MSG)

  • Brene Brown - The Daring Way

  • “A Prayer for the Church” by Rev. Emily Swan reading - words to meditate and pray on

  • O Ignis Spiritus (Music) - Lyrics translated to English

 

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Episode 85 - The Soul of Sex

SHOW NOTES Dear Friends, This podcast is about "The Soul of Sex."  This is an honest, vulnerable, and transparent conversation. I talk with Jim Cress, a licensed professional and trained counselor who specializes in the soul of sex. PLEASE NOTE: This is a conversation you need to exercise wisdom with in terms of who listens to this.

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Dear Friends,

This podcast is about “The Soul of Sex.”  This is an honest, vulnerable, and transparent conversation. I talk with Jim Cress, a licensed professional and trained counselor who specializes in the soul of sex.

PLEASE NOTE: This is a conversation you need to exercise wisdom with in terms of who listens to this. It’s a mature conversation not intended for children.

But it is a conversation to enter with your friends and spouse.

When we say “where soul meets the world” in this podcast, this is a particular conversation we need to find the light and way forward.

Blessings as you listen!

Stephen W. Smith

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Meet Special Guest Jim Cress

Jim is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Multiple Addictions Therapist, and a Certified Daring Way Facilitator with Dr. Brene’ Brown’s The Daring Way Organization. For three years, he studied with and was trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes, the founder of the sex addiction field. Jim specializes in counseling those struggling with sex addiction, partners of sex addicts, marital counseling, trauma, abuse, and experiential group therapy.

Jim is in private practice in Matthews, NC, and is a group leader for Onsite Workshops near Nashville, TN. He led sexual addiction workshops for Bethesda Workshops in Nashville for six years. Jim is also a national conference speaker with The American Association of Christian Counselors. He leads regular weekly men’s therapy groups, and speaks at churches in the Charlotte, North Carolina area.

As a 34 year veteran broadcaster and radio talk show host, Jim formerly hosted and cohosted the national call-in talk shows, “The Minirth-Meier Clinic”, “Turn It Around” with the American Association of Christian Counselors, and “Hope in the Night” with June Hunt. Jim is currently the host of his own radio program called, “Conversations of Life”.

Jim has been married to his wife Jessica since 1985, and has two adult sons, an adult daughter, and daughter-in-law. Jim and Jessica are also proud grandparents to Lincoln and Paxton.

Jim’s Website

Resources Suggested by Steve and Jim

Steve’s suggestions

Jim’s Suggestions

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Episode 79- Aging with Wisdom and Grace

Episode 79- Aging with Wisdom and Grace

What does God have for each of us as we grow older? How do we embrace our aging in a culture that worships youth?

Steve chats with Sherill Hostetter today, and the conversation is a beautiful and honest look at what each of us will likely experience in our lives… and how we can all decide to grow older with grace and wisdom and approach aging as a spiritual pilgrimage.

Episode 78 - Finding Comfort

Beginning of Season 5

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Welcome back! Take a seat, grab a warm cup of tea or coffee, and join us for the first podcast of our 5th Season.

Today’s podcast is a concoction of voices, with several friends sharing how they have found comfort in these times. Included is encouragement from Steve, with scriptures and some exercises in self-care.

We are happy to be back and joining you today in the conversation!  

 

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Episode 77 - Prayerfully Examining the Year: The Yearly Examen

Episode 77 - Prayerfully Examining the Year: The Yearly Examen

If there was ever a time for hope of a new beginning in the coming new year, it would be now! 2020 has been a challenge (yes, the understatement of the year), and today’s discussion is all about how we raise awareness, in our own hearts, of how God has moved in the midst of the past year.

Episode 76 -A Covid Christmas Blessing

Christmas will be different this year - the lights, the festivities… they've all been canceled. Our plans, our gatherings… it's all going to be different. And yet there's something deep in this advent, in this pandemic, that is for us to understand.

Grab a cup of warm, soothing tea and join Steve as he takes the story of Mary and Joseph and how to live in the blessing of what might be called a Covid Christmas Blessing.

Episode 75 - The TRUE State of Your Soul

Episode 75 - The TRUE State of Your Soul

Steve sits down with Peter Ivey and together they talk about The State of the Soul---and how to use the brand new tool they developed for you.

Today’s episode is far more than a podcast: it's the distillation of what Steve and Peter both know about the soul, and how to try to get our hands around our souls--if that is even possible.

Episode 74 - Recharging Your Inner Battery: Soul Care in Depleting Times

Episode 74 - Recharging Your Inner Battery: Soul Care in Depleting Times

Today’s message is vital and central. It's about how to recharge your inner batteries. In so many ways, it's urgent to just listen and reflect upon this conversation. That's why I'm asking you to just stop what you're doing and schedule a time right now to just listen.

Episode 54 - How To Stay Sane In Troubled Times

Episode 54 - How To Stay Sane In Troubled Times

The pandemic has changed many things for each of our lives, yet our “real life” is still happening - children are graduating from HS, weddings continue to take place, and so on. How do we balance “Real Life” with everything happening around us?

Jeremy talks to Joel Roberts about how the pandemic is affecting us and how to stay sane amidst the chaos and the “real life.” They discuss some practices to engage in and put in place to stay grounded and centered during these times.

Episode 51 - Surviving Covid-19: Lessons Learned

Episode 51 - Surviving Covid-19: Lessons Learned

In today’s world of accusations of “fake news” and the erosion of “who can you trust?”—this podcast is important. Steve sits down with author, counselor, and teacher Sharon Hersh to have a truthful and personal conversation about what is like to be diagnosed, live with, and recover from Covid-19. Sharon’s voice and work is important in the world of soul care. Her books have impacted us in Potter’s Inn work because of her honest, Scriptural, and insightful way she talks about addiction, recovery, our true identity, and being the Beloved.

Episode 48 - The Hidden Life

Episode 48 - The Hidden Life

“Meanwhile, be content with obscurity, just as Christ was.” Colossians 3:4 (MSG)

Isolation - something most of us are experiencing right now.

Today's podcast is about unwanted isolation - the type God uses to accomplish what only living in obscurity can do and how God uses obscurity to shape and mold us for greater things; things that we are not always aware of.

Episode 38 - Trauma and the Soul

Episode 38 - Trauma and the Soul

PLEASE NOTE: This is a helpful conversation that deals with adult topics. We would recommend our listeners be 18 and over for this conversation.

All of us are experiencing a heightened awareness to situations in the world that feels traumatizing to our soul. But what happens to us when we experience trauma? And how can we walk alongside someone who has, or is, experiencing trauma?

Episode 15 - Five Reasons Soul Care Matters

Episode 15 - Five Reasons Soul Care Matters

We are excited to be launching our second season on August 20!  While you are waiting for our new season, we wanted to share this timely message from Steve and Gwen Smith. If you have ever wondered why soul care should matter to you, this is the podcast for you.

Five Reasons Soul Care Matters

1.      We live in perilous times – we are exhausted, weighed down with troubles. All of this affects us.

2.      The tendency to live in a sense of scarcity instead of inner abundance.

3.      Jesus said the soul matters.

4.      It’s about how-to embrace life on earth - It’s not about finding the perfect answer. It’s not just about surviving.

5.      The promise of Abundant life - it is not about a busy life but a life of reflection, a chance to slow down and live meaningful.